What to expect at a family court hearing: A guide for litigants in person
Introduction
Attending a family court hearing can be stressful, especially if you're doing so without a solicitor (known as a litigant in person). But knowledge can ease nerves. At Unit Chambers, we often help clients prepare for hearings as their barrister under Direct Access. This guide offers a clear roadmap of what you’re likely to face.
Before the hearing
Direction orders / case management hearing may take place first
Exchange and file documents (position statements, witness statements, evidence bundles)
Pre-hearing conference with your barrister (if instructed) to clarify objectives and key points
Logistics check: court address, arrival time, courtroom number, dress code
Roles you’ll see in court
Judge / Family Court Judge – the decision-maker
Your barrister (if instructed) – advocates for you, examines / cross-examines, presents arguments
Other party or their legal representation
Legal adviser or clerk – assists the judge with legal queries
Court staff / usher – handle admin, announcements
Witnesses / experts (if relevant)
How the hearing typically proceeds
Opening remarks / case direction by judge
Evidence and witness statements – your barrister (or you if unrepresented) may lead or cross-examine
Argument phase – each side presents legal submissions
Closing statements
Judge’s decision / reserved judgment (immediate or later)
Post-hearing order / summary / debrief
At Unit Chambers, after the hearing, your barrister will typically provide a written summary, explain what happened and advise on next steps.
Tips for litigants in person
Be punctual: courts run on tight schedules
Be respectful: address the judge appropriately (“Sir/Madam”)
Keep your speaking concise and factual: stick to your key points
Listen carefully: to questions, directions, rulings
Don’t interrupt: wait until the judge invites you
Stay calm under pressure: if unsure, ask for clarification
Bring multiple copies of your documents for the court and other parties
How a barrister can help even if you’re representing yourself
Prep you beforehand: walk through likely questions, cross-examination points
Be present to represent you: making legal submissions on your behalf
Draft skeleton arguments, responses or position statements
Debrief and advise on next steps
Even limited involvement can make a big difference in outcome and confidence.
After the hearing
Receive and draft order
Read the judge’s ruling thoroughly, ask your barrister for an explanation
Understand timelines (e.g. appeals, next hearings)
Plan next steps: whether enforcement, variation, or settlement
Final Thoughts
Going to family court can be daunting but with preparation and the right support, you can face it confidently. If you would like help preparing, or representation, submit our Direct Access Application Form and one of our barristers will be happy to assist you.